Instant Impact: A Couple Secrets That Can Change Your Life

Jordan Tarver
November 23, 2021

This newsletter was originally sent on July 29, 2021.

Hey there,

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Four Ideas


If you need help, ask for it. People can't read your mind.


Sometimes we don't choose we love because we worry of other people's judgement. But you deserve better than that. Stop stressing about what others think. Your happiness is more important.


The secret to growth: repetition, not perfection.


Life is tough without a support system—it can feel like an uphill battle.

The older I get, the more I realize how important it is to build your own life team. This means connecting with people who mutually uplift, encourage, motivate, listen, and fight for each other.

My relationship with my fiancé is a perfect example. We’ve built our entire relationship from the day we started dating on the mentality of being teammates. This intention has let us create a powerful relationship that breeds the support we both need to live out our individual truths.

This mentality applies to friend groups, too. It’s crucial to surround yourself with a circle of friends that supports each other and one you can lean into when you need it most.

As you connect with new people in life, embody the teammate mentality. Search for people who are ready to support each other mutually. Show up for them just as you want them to show up for you.

Anything can be done with a team, but not everything can be done alone.

This is the secret to winning the fight.

You Deserve This Quote

A quote from my new book, You Deserve This Sh!t:

"A simple morning routine lets you win your day before it even takes place."

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Best,Jordan TarverAuthor of You Deserve This Sh!t


Jordan Tarver is a lead editor at Forbes, a keynote speaker, and the bestselling author of You Deserve This Sh!t.
He’s transformed over 30,000 lives through his book, amassed more than 200,000 devoted followers, and garnered over 60 million views online. Jordan is on a mission to empower people and organizations to unlock exponential growth and expansive possibilities.

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